Inside the Fortune Teller’s Tent

I love stories. I love movies. I love magic. For my entire life, I’ve believed in the magical stories I’ve read in books or seen in movies. Even though I know and believe in scientific facts, magic is fun! Believing in magic is part of childhood, and there’s nothing wrong with keeping that mindset throughout life. But, is there a difference between magic in stories and magic in real life?

This weekend I met with a fortune teller for the first time at a friend’s birthday party. I went in thinking, “well this is going to be a bunch of baloney, but it should be fun.” My friends told me to ask her about what is to come in my love life, and we all regarded my visit as a joke. I entered her little cloth tent after about an hour of waiting my turn, and a middle aged woman wearing a multicolored caftan – I’ll call her Zara – asked my name. Zara asked for something of mine to hold onto, so I gave her my watch. I told her immediately as I entered that I was excited and had been waiting for this moment, so I was not all that impressed when the first thing she said to me was that she believed I had a lot of energy. But as our session progressed, her comments got more and more specific and made me question my strict adherence to scientific facts.

My social life has been a rollercoaster lately, and she told me she could tell I’ve been stressed. That comment just reinforced what I already knew about myself;  I have been told I give off a stressful vibe. As we continued talking and Zara continued fingering my watch, she spewed out some additional wisdom about my life, and I felt like I couldn’t look away. She suggested that music calms me, told me I would find a boyfriend who has brown hair like me, and that when I get my braces off I’m going to be a “knockout.” Whether she told me what would actually happen in my future or just what I wanted to hear, I’m not entirely sure. But I left her humble booth feeling happy, justified, and hopeful for my future.

Predicting the future has been around for centuries and is done under the belief that the universe has a set pattern for each individual in which clues can be found to determine fortunes and upcoming events about a person’s life. As a student in AP European History, I loved the idea that fortune telling is found in many cultures and may have some roots in Renaissance magic. Subjects like alchemy and astrology speak to me like the pages of Harry Potter and the idea of having the stars align for me seemed equally riveting.  

Whether my experience with Zara was actually scientific or just a bunch of well- executed educated guesses by an excellent reader of people I will never know. But what I do know is that seeing a fortune teller is an interesting experience that allows you to take some time for self reflection. Maybe it was all ambiance – like being in the salon or having a sleepover with good friends, but I felt like I could really tell her anything, and she would magically shape that new bit of information into some prediction about what would come next. So the next time you’re feeling curious or a bit confused, don’t spend a ton of money on a therapist, just head down to a fortune teller and have a real, personal, and downright magical experience.

Taking Our Fight for Gun Safety to Congress

This past weekend I had the privilege of attending the L’Taken Seminar with the Religious Action Center for Reform Judaism in Washington D.C. I attended multiple seminars on different social justice issues in our modern day world, such as reproductive rights, economic justice and poverty, and gun violence prevention. I had the opportunity to pick a topic, write a speech, and lobby my representative to Congress about the social justice action for which I was advocating. After careful consideration, I chose to lobby on gun violence prevention. Living 30 minutes away from the Borderline shooting and meeting someone from Parkland, Florida, made this issue feel so pressing to me, and I am determined to advocate for gun control laws.  To state our case to Congresswoman Brownley, colleague Rachel Oplinger and I made a speech, which I modified and share with you here:

        On September 6, 1949 Howard Unruh embarked on his “Walk of Death” through his neighborhood, killing 13 people in Camden, New Jersey. The United States experienced our first mass shooting, and no legislative action was taken. Sixty-three years later at Sandy Hook Elementary school in Newton, Connecticut, twenty-eight people were murdered, twenty-three of whom were children from ages six to seven.  After this shootingt and after these beautiful young children had their lives stripped away before they even started, appropriate legislative action was still not taken. I was nine years old when the tragedy of the Sandy Hook shooting occurred. I remember being confused. How could anyone take away the children from many families in Connecticut right before the holidays? The following week we practiced lock down drills at my elementary school. We were shooed into closets and told to be as quiet as possible. As 4th graders in America, we were learning how to hide from an active shooter. I continued to express my worries about the topic to my parents, and we decided to put our saved holiday money to a good use. We donated it to an organization that was actively trying to improve gun violence prevention laws. The tragedies have now escalated to an epidemic in our country that’s getting worse every day. Gun violence is killing over 30,000 people in the U.S daily, eight of whom are under the age of twenty. We as American citizens should not be afraid of getting shot. However we as American teens have this burden on our childhood, and we’re talking to you today to express our hope that legislative action will be taken and The Bipartisan Background Checks Act will be passed.

        I would like to share with you today the reality of what it is like to be a high school student in 2019. I know you are familiar with the idea of student safety, but let me share with you my experience, living 30 minutes away from the Borderline Shooting, and experiencing how high school students really are affected by killings like the one in Parkland. On November 8, 2018, the day after the Borderline shooting, I went to school, only knowing that a tragedy had happened the night before. I was waiting for responses from my friends at California Lutheran University, hoping they weren’t at the restaurant that night. I’d had a bad day at school, I’d gotten a bad test score, and I was just feeling down. I ran into my friend Chase in the music room, where I continued to complain about my day’s hardships. He responded simply with, “I bet my day was worse”. Not understanding the situation, I asked him, “Oh really?” as if I needed to one up him, as if my day were so much worse than his. He stopped walking, turned to me, and said, “My friend Cody was killed last night in the Borderline shooting.” I stopped short. I was completely at a loss for words. In the past year and a half, I have had to console countless friends for losing their houses in the Thomas fire, but this was an experience I had never confronted. As a 15 year old living in Ventura, California, I should not have to be afraid to go to the movies with my friends. I should not have to be afraid to go to a restaurant. I should NOT have to go to school and take time away from my learning so I can practice an active shooter drill. I want the legislators of this country to be horrified, that students between the ages of 6-18 need to participate in active shooter drills, because this fear of violence shapes the climate of our country. I should not have to console friends whose loved ones were just killed. To combat this issue, we, as the voice of this generation, need to make guns less readily available to anyone who wants one. The Bipartisan Background Checks Act of 2019 will expand background checks and fix loopholes, making guns harder to obtain for people in whose hands they should not be. As residents of Ventura County, where gun shows are held multiple times a year at the Ventura County Fairgrounds, this issue is especially personal, as we are directly affected by the possible effect of a gun being purchased without a background check, right in our own city. We are proud to be citizens of California, where restrictive gun laws are amongst the strictest in the country, but we urge you to support The Bipartisan Background Checks Act on behalf of students and young people across the country. We hope you encourage other legislators to support this act as well, so we as American kids can feel safe and know we are being protected by our government.

        U’vacharta b’chayim, choose life, that you and your children will live (Book of Deuteronomy). As Reform Jews we look to Torah for wisdom and guidance on 21st century issues. Teachings like Btzelem Elohim (we are all created in the image of God), and “Do not stand idly by while your neighbor’s blood is shed” Leviticus 19:16 inspire us to speak out against gun violence, and the loss of life. The quality of our country is affected by gun violence, and like any piece of text, people can choose to interpret it in many different ways, but as Reform Jews, we understand it as a command from God to take action against this injustice.

        We strongly urge Congresswoman Brownley to support the Bipartisan Background Checks Act so that every American, from students to adults, can feel safer in a country with more guns than people.

        Thank you for your time.

Why I’m Marching

On January 19, 2019, I found myself marching in downtown Ventura in the 3rd annual Women’s March.

Surrounded by signs and chants about freedom and rights, I felt part of the battle to which so many women before me have dedicated their lives. Marchers waved signs bearing the image of one woman in particular, who set the precedent for what we as women in the 21st century should expect in the eyes of the law. That woman is Ruth Bader Ginsburg.

On December 25, 2018, “On the Basis of Sex” premiered. This film shows the journey of young Ruth Bader Ginsburg (RBG) and her personal battle with discrimination, first as a law school graduate in New York City, and then as the architect of legal challenge to sex discrimination, as she successfully argued the case of “Charles E. Moritz V. Commissioner of Internal Revenue” before the federal appellate court in Denver, Colorado.

Ginsburg went on from there to develop and argue many gender discrimination cases in the 1970s and 1980s, to attack all areas where the law treats people differently based on gender and to bring to the public eye the fact that gender-based discrimination is not only a problem for women, but for all people.

“On the Basis of Sex” joins documentary RBG released earlier this year and Irin Carmon and Shana Knizhnik’s book “Notorious RBG”: “The Life and Times of Ruth Bader Ginsburg” in providing a detailed account of the life and legal career of Ruth Bader Ginsburg. Today Ginsburg remains an active member of the Supreme Court and in the public eye as a leader of women’s rights. Whenever Ginsburg is asked when will there be enough women on the Supreme Court, she always responds by saying, “When there are 9 of us.”

I went to see this movie. Twice. All my life I have heard about Ruth Bader Ginsburg and the powerhouse that she is. Over fall break, my parents took me to see an exhibit about her life at the Skirball Museum. I was in awe of her accomplishments and how she did it all purely on her own drive to succeed. I am a Jewish feminist, and it is empowering to see someone like me out in the world making real change. While the law is not my passion, I am inspired to apply the same confidence, determination and skill to whatever field of study I pursue.

In the beginning of the movie, a scene shows Ruth at Harvard running to get to her ill husband Marty’s law classes after attending her own. This scene really spoke to me because it showed how she let nothing stand in the way of achieving her goals – for herself and for her family. Watching this movie showed me the struggle she went through to connect with her children and her family life, while never losing momentum in fighting for a cause that she believes in (earning her the nickname Notorious RBG).  More importantly, I see that it is possible to be a loving and nurturing parent while simultaneously being a dedicated and fierce career woman and a public figure working toward important changes in our society.

Ruth Bader Ginsburg embodies so many of the qualities I want to strive for as I chose my own path. She is a role model for me, and I was so excited to see her on posters at the Women’s March and understand how she has become a symbol of this movement.

Seeing RBG’s story through the Skirball exhibit, the documentary and the movie, “On the Basis of Sex,” helped me understand what the battle for gender equality is all about and what we, as women, have won, and what we still need to fight for. For young women like me, coming of age during President Donald Trump’s administration and the #MeToo movement, RBG’s story is a wakeup call – a call to march. To march for the right to equal pay, to march for the right to make choices about our bodies and to march for equality in all aspects of the law.

I urge you to go out and watch “On the Basis of Sex” to understand the women’s movement better. Where we started, what we have accomplished and who led the way, and where we have yet to go.    

What you get with The Hate U Give

Society uses movie theaters and other forms of entertainment to get away from life’s problems for an hour or two. We watch movies about superheroes and princesses in far off realities, different from our own.

As an avid theater goer, I am constantly waiting for the next Marvel movie to come out, or for some new Disney picture to be in theaters. When I saw the trailer for The Hate U Give, I saw a young black girl, struggling with the death of her friend. It looked interesting, just like any other movie.

I decided to take my family to see the movie, and I was just expecting to see yet another far off reality different from my own. I could not have been more wrong.

The Hate U Give is about a black teenage girl, Starr Carter, who lives in an African American neighborhood ridden with crime, called Garden Heights. But her parents want something better for her, so they send her to an all white private school in a nearby suburb.

In the course of living her two realities, her childhood friend from her neighborhood, also black, is shot by a white police officer after being pulled over for a routine traffic stop. Starr finds it increasingly difficult to keep up the act of juggling two lives as the investigation of the shooting progresses.

This film provides tremendous insight for me, a white teenage girl, into the extreme differences between the lives of black Americans versus white Americans. In mainstream America, the media minimizes how black people really are treated by authorities, especially law enforcement. But The Hate U Give highlights reality, which is that blacks are treated differently than whites.

The Hate U Give is classified as a drama, crime, and thriller film. However, more appropriately it is a serious, suspenseful drama characterized by many agonizing moments, which are often hard to watch because the truth hurts. This movie is not some far off reality. It is the world right outside of our movie theaters, right outside of our schools.

The story that this movie tells is replayed over and over again across our country. April Ofrah, an attorney in The Hate U Give, powerfully stated, “It’s the same story just a different name.” For example, in 2014 this same story played out in Ferguson, Missouri after the shooting death of Michael Brown, an 18-year-old African American man, also by a white police officer.

This tragedy led to extreme anger across the Ferguson community and the community protested, both peacefully and violently, for over a week. The protesters in Missouri used the slogan “Hands up, don’t shoot,”the same slogan that is featured in a protest in The Hate U Give. One person died in the Ferguson unrest.

Despite similar roots as civil rights protests, black protests are often immediately labeled as “aggressive” and “dangerous,” when protests like March For our Lives, made up mostly of white people, are considered “empowering” and “good for society.”  

This issue of discrimination is not something new that we are just seeing in the 21st century. Black Americans have been fighting discrimination for decades, long before the Civil Rights movement in the 60s, often due to whites’ perceptions of blacks. As April Ofrah, attorney in The Hate U Give, said “…when our blackness is the weapon that they fear.”

I chose to see this movie twice because I was so moved by the real story that it reflects. As a white teenage girl, I see this story from a different perspective, because I can’t even pretend to understand what the character of Starr, and everyone that she is representing, is going through.

The Hate U Give shows the real story of how law enforcement treats different people, solely based off of their skin tone. While we enjoy black culture, like hip hop music and dancing and march in protest for the rights of black Americans, we have yet to understand the experience of being a black American in 21st century America. As Starr Carter put it, “You act black but you keep your white privilege.” We can do better. We can start by seeing The Hate U Give.